Archive for June, 2011

12
Jun
11

Some facts about the Unemployment rate and opinion on the GOP

People who usually visit this blog will usually come here to read on my opinions on love, romance, relationship, etc. But while I’m watching “Meet the Press” on NBC this morning, and the Republicans are continuing to blame President Obama for the economy being in the toilet, and using data, such as the unemployment rate and the net loss of jobs as their biggest set of ammo. As I write this blog, I have some ammo of my own. For starters, I have been involuntarily unemployed twice in my adult years, so I can personally attest to the unemployment life as an American. And two, as a Six Sigma Black Belt, in business and in personal life, I respond better to data (facts) than I do to emotion. With that being said, here’s what I got (as I continue to ignore every hypocritical thing Santorum just said, LOL).

NBC showed that since Obama took office, the unemployment rate has risen from 7.3% to 9.1%. I will admit that those numbers are very factual and can be confirmed by any simple Google search. But here’s what the average Joe Six Pack American doesn’t know about how the unemployment rate is calculated. I initially had questions about this when I was in my early 20′s and out of work for a year. So here’s what I found out then (and corroborated by the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the source in which the unemployment rate data is derived):
- The unemployment rate is initially measured by calculating the amount of Americans who have been involuntarily terminated (not due to misconduct) are currently receiving unemployment compensation (insurance) from the respective state(s) in which they reside compared to the amount of Americans who are currently working (which includes anyone 16 and up working at the mall all the way up to CEO’s). Because this number does not include those who have ran out of eligibility, the BLS will then take a representative sample of 60,000 households in the U.S. and ask them a set of questions to determine the employment of that particular household. They will use that to guess determine what the unemployment rate is. This rate is produced and published on a monthly basis by the BLS.

So here’s what the data is NOT telling you: as they admit, this does not factor in Americans who have ran out of eligibility (i.e. those who have surpassed their state benefits, and any federal extension benefits that may exist) and have to use other means in which to bring income into their household (such as depleting savings, selling their stuff, taking menial jobs to have something coming versus nothing, and yes of course, CRIME). When you factor that in, the rate of unemployed and the underemployed is MUCH higher than you think, especially in the minority communities. As someone who can personally attest to that, I know that back in 2003 George W. Bush decided to discontinue the Federal Unemployment extension program, which left every unemployed American with only the benefits of their respective states, which was usually no more than 6 months. In my opinion, he did this for two reasons: 1. He knew how the numbers worked, and cutting the federal program would reduce that number for his own political gain. And 2. In order to fund our efforts in Afghanistan and in Iraq, additional money to pad the defense budget had to come from somewhere, don’t ya think?

Now for those who are in any type of professional working setting, and you see the continual changes they make based on tone at the top, you understand why this economy is jacked up. For those who have no idea what I’m talking about, I will give you a crash course:
Any private sector company that is publicly traded has one major goal in mind: make money, which is typically measured by such things as profit margin, earnings/dividends per share to stockholders. Growth is always good for any public, and staying where you’re at, or shrinking, is bad and can affect stock price. So the constant goal is to figure out how to maintain a respectable profit margin (so that everyone gets their “cut” of the pie), regardless of the growth or shrinkage of the company. In the case where your company is shrinking, what’s the easiest way to reduce expense and maintain profit margin? YES, lay off employees. That simple, yet widely practiced, plan of action is the quickest way to reduce operating and administrative expense within any company. Some companies do it well, and some cut too deep and it will cost them quality. However, if you still need to reduce expense, but can’t afford to lose the “firepower” from a personnel standpoint, what’s your plan B? Ah YES, send those jobs overseas to countries such as India, China, or the Philippines, where you can do a 1:1 swap of domestic worker to overseas contingent worker, reduce the hourly rate charged to your bottom line, and not lose production. Soooooo…….. when those decisions are made as to who will get cut, per se, some tough decisions have to be made (and I will leave it at that, LOL).

Despite everything I just told you, there are still a lion’s share of Republicans and members of the Taxed Enough Already (TEA) Party who believe that the government should reduce income tax on the top 1% (who have 80% of the country’s wealth), maintain the tax code loopholes that allow companies like GE to not pay ANY corporate tax, while reducing the corporate tax collectively, and reduce taxes on companies that ship jobs overseas to increase company profits (in which the taxes as is still allow most companies to reduce expenses compared to keeping jobs here). The “trickle-down” theory from the 80′s was supposed to put more money in the pockets of the rich so they can spend more on those who contribute to their wealth. How has that worked out for Americans, given that most who have benefited from those tax cuts started by Reagan have kept that money? Look at Harlem in the 80′s (the poster child of the crack epidemic), the Midwest (outside of Chicago) over the last 20 years, and California since “the Governator” has been in charge.

To sum it up, America, WAKE THE HELL UP and have enough initiative to educate yourself on the facts versus just settling for the flawed information that’s being presented to you. But I understand how hard that is when we are so impatient and lazy as a country when it comes to self-education, right? Has Obama been perfect? No, of course not. But just like in most corporations in this country, Black men have to be twice as good (and/or perfect in their role) in order to be considered good enough to be next to their fair performing white counterpart, and that’s Obama’s conundrum as the first Black POTUS.

If you have a problem with what I said, in the words of The Rock, JUST BRING IT!!!

 

09
Jun
11

The Diamond Apology

As most of you know, I have not written a blog entry in several months now, and those who know me personally have some true insight into why. But there are times when a perfect storm of conversations and youtube clips will lead me to speak on a subject that all of us have been exposed to at one point or another. A lot of men are bold and desperate enough to do it, and because a LOT of women continue to fall for it, men will continue to do it. But before I go into it, I will speak on how the storm came together…….

I was having a conversation this past weekend with a friend of mine in Atlanta, and she was telling me about how a dude proposed to his girlfriend, more or less, at the club (yes, the CLUB). Although she accepted, the fact that a dude proposed at the club (in my opinion) is straight ghetto and lacks class. And being who I am, I decided to joke on it and talk about how dude probably had this song cued up after she said yes. I also talked to her about my Wednesday Wind Down experience when a dude should have aborted mission on site.

Fast forward a few days, and another conversation ensues where a woman hints at the demise of her current relationship. Without asking her for detail, she simply said “there are certain things that can’t be fixed”. I didn’t say anything to her at the time, but my initial thought was “I wonder if a ring would?”. Which brings me to this nice gem on youtube, courtesy of necolebitchie.com:

As you can see, a dude decides to propose to his girlfriend at the club and gets royally shot down. For starters…………. fellas, having ya boy sing a song on your behalf to your girl is a great idea on the surface (especially if you can’t hold a note), but having him sing a song with lyrics in the chorus that hint at you formerly having a lot of women is not necessarily a good idea when proposing (MESSAGE!!).  Second, on both sides, you should have had the “marriage conversation” and leave that conversation knowing in your heart that this is the one for you. In other words, DUDE, you should have known she was going to say yes before you got down on one knee. If you have doubt with her answer, don’t propose…….. PERIOD.

However, that’s not the primary motivation for this blog…………….

If you go back and watch the clip again, you will notice that dude said “I can’t change what I did in the past” and you could read the girl’s lips and she said something to the effect of “you can’t fix this, this isn’t going to fix anything”. Now I applaud her for using her head to make what she felt was the best decision and not buckling to the pressure of accepting the proposal to not embarrass the dude, regardless of if it’s in public or private. It’s a shame for her that a moment she’s been dreaming about since she was a little girl had to come, from a man she knew wasn’t the one for her, in the middle of a packed CLUB. Her words alluded to a broken relationship that was beyond repair. Now dude could have been physically abusive, or dude’s infidelity could have been an issue. But here’s the problem that I have with this brotha’s Hail Mary football play: in most cases, IT WORKS!

Why does it work? Because women continue to fall for it. The story is always the same: man acts foul, isn’t on the up and up, messes up bad with his girl, who decides to or threatens to leave him. Now the man, who has taken his woman for granted, now realizes he’s at risk of losing the only woman in his life who will put up with him, and typical “discussion” is not getting him anywhere. So since conventional conversation has gained him no yards and time’s running out, a man will lay it all on the line and throw the Hail Mary pass of player moves, which I like to call “The Diamond Apology”, formerly known as The CCP (Cookie Control Proposal). This apology simply consists of a man using an engagement ring (the semi-official symbol of commitment) as a means to accomplish two things: get her back, AND shut her up.

It works so often because it gives most women the illusion of a man that’s ready to “make it right” and commit, but that’s not always the case. I recall a story from my early 20′s about a girl I chatted with on BlackPlanet, and she was talking about how she was dating a Euroleague ball player who kept cheating on her (in the US and in Europe) and was verbally abusive. She had one foot out the door, until her man showed up to her NY studio apartment with an apology, a “Performance Improvement Plan”, and a 3 carat diamond ring. Of course she accepted his apology and was now engaged to a man who virtually turned around and got on a plane back to Europe as soon as she said yes. Did they get married? Who knows, since she shut down her BP page as a sign of commitment to him (yeah I know, laughable). But several years later into my 30′s, and dozens of comparable stories later, the ploy still works.

To wrap this up, here are two takeways:

LADIES: Quit falling for this Day 26-ish BS move. As men, simply put, this move is less about our “love” for you and more about our ego. Don’t let your romantic and emotional apathy override your female intuition. You KNOW when a man’s not the one for you; don’t let societal and peer pressure put you in a non-value added situation where you’re a neglected woman with additional jewelry.

FELLAS: When you’re involved with a woman, DO RIGHT BY HER! Think about it: when you want a promotion at work, you have to perform at the next level in order to get promoted, right? Now why wouldn’t you do the same when it comes to the woman you want to be with? If you want to be a woman’s husband, you must perform at that level in order for God to ordain your union and bless you with that opportunity. So that means, love her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25); don’t abuse her, don’t neglect her, don’t cheat on her, protect and provide for her (and I’m not talking physical protection or financial provision). If you do that, and your woman reciprocates that love to you, then you will avoid the fate of the brotha in the clip, or this poor guy in Houston.

I know a LOT of dudes might be mad at what I’m saying here, and some women too. But if you are, you really need to look in the mirror and determine the root cause of your anger. I’m just the educated messenger.

Feel free to leave comments and let me know what you think, and/or share your experiences.

 




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