Comments on: Why is WE Single (2010 Version) Part II: Stand Up, Stand Out http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/ My thoughts, my observations, and my music. Tue, 06 Mar 2012 02:28:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: LainaBaina http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/#comment-213 Wed, 13 Jan 2010 04:04:27 +0000 http://richbrand.wordpress.com/?p=165#comment-213 This one has me thinking about myself. Like most women, I think I have a long list of great qualities but I may need to find out what is it that makes me different than all the other good women out here.

]]> By: Amber http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/#comment-203 Sun, 03 Jan 2010 04:18:16 +0000 http://richbrand.wordpress.com/?p=165#comment-203 I don’t know how I feel about this just yet. You’ve made some very interesting and valid points but I’m caught up in presentation. I won’t dwell on that. So, I agree that a lot of why we’re single is “we” don’t know ourselves and true value and even more clueless as to how to project that. Each and every one of us has a “wow”. I think its often missed because we do too much to conform to be the fit for the one we’re dating. We are also so set on checklist stats. Is there anything wrong with wanting a man to be where you are or above financially? No. The mindset behind that shouldn’t be the number but the mentality…often there are men who have issues with a woman who is “the breadwinner.” Checklists should be the guide…not the standard.

]]> By: C.Gold. http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/#comment-201 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 19:50:56 +0000 http://richbrand.wordpress.com/?p=165#comment-201 My fav part: Does it matter that he/she has a 4 inch random hair that grows somewhere on his/her body that makes you go “arrrruuuuuuuu”?

Well said brotha! And as you went about attempting to address the issue, I SO applaud you for your organization/content – so many times we want to focus on what the men are doing wrong OR what the women are doing wrong. We all have things we do right, things we need to work on separately and things we need to work on collectively.

BRAVO!

]]> By: Sharon http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/#comment-200 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 11:57:58 +0000 http://richbrand.wordpress.com/?p=165#comment-200 Another point I think you missed are the number of women that are fine with just being the side chick. They help to ruin families. Men feel like I don’t have to commit to one woman because I have three that are willing to share me. Those women that have no self worth don’t see sharing as a bad thing because atleast they have a piece of man instead of no man at all. That’s why I’m single because another woman allowed herself to be the other woman for years even after she found out about me and our family. Too many woman are starting to just settle for the only thing they can get.

]]> By: Aprill http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/#comment-199 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 06:24:35 +0000 http://richbrand.wordpress.com/?p=165#comment-199 Interesting take….

]]> By: Rolanda http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/#comment-198 Wed, 30 Dec 2009 03:32:43 +0000 http://richbrand.wordpress.com/?p=165#comment-198 Steve Harvey also said that we (Black ladies) are going to have to date older men. I’ll add to that & say that we’re going to have to step outside of our race & explore “other” options.

Who’s with me? :-)

Very good prose Rich!

]]> By: J Dubya http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/#comment-196 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 23:00:19 +0000 http://richbrand.wordpress.com/?p=165#comment-196 Well said frat. A lot of people lose out on a good person because they’re so caught up on trivial things.

]]> By: Anger Management http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/#comment-195 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 19:03:50 +0000 http://richbrand.wordpress.com/?p=165#comment-195 AMEN!!!!

]]> By: stephanielle http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/#comment-192 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 12:53:23 +0000 http://richbrand.wordpress.com/?p=165#comment-192 Law of Attraction.. i can dig this. we are all searching, someway, somehow. peace.

]]> By: Streetz http://richbrand.net/2009/12/28/stand-up-stand-out/#comment-190 Tue, 29 Dec 2009 06:15:43 +0000 http://richbrand.wordpress.com/?p=165#comment-190 this is complete Tabernacle. you are wise beyond your years my friend! Self assessment is always key because the problem may be you and you’d never know!

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